3 Types of People to have in your life

3 Types of People to have in your life

3 C’s 

Life is very eventful and so are the people we keep on our paths to help us enjoy our different journeys. As my life progresses, I’ve come to the realization that only a handful of important people should be kept around.This thought led me to my blog post today.

  1. The Confidant

This person is in your life unconditionally, he/she doesn’t judge you based off anything you are experiencing n life. This is “YOUR PERSON” no matter the circumstances. It is important to have this person in your life to mentor you for the next level in your life. They keep you level headed and make sure you think deeper into your actions.

  1. Comrade’s

These people are not for you, nor are they for what you are for. THEY ARE AGAINST WHAT YOU ARE AGAINST! They will always cause people to come together who are not for you. They will only be with you till their goal is accomplished. These are the most confusing friends…. The ones you need to watch closely.

  1. Constituents

They are not into you, they are into what you are for. AS LONG AS YOU ARE FOR WHAT THEY ARE FOR, THEY WILL ALWAYS WALK WITH YOU!!! It is important to know that when they meet someone else who will further their agenda, they will drop you! Simply because they were never FOR YOU.

I know for many, this is something we have read and heard so many times but are we actively paying attention to people’s actions?

Consistently assess who you have around you.

What type of friend are you and what role are you playing in someone’s life?



  1. Rose
    November 6, 2018 / 8:16 am

    An in depth assemment of friendships in today’s world. Ultimately, just pray about it and ask God to help you discern who falls in what category ❤️

    • ndelwamwasa
      November 6, 2018 / 8:18 am

      That’s 🔑 key! Pray about it & leave it up to God

  2. Chituwa
    November 6, 2018 / 9:09 am

    “As long as you are for what they are for, they will always walk with you” 🙌🏾

    • ndelwamwasa
      November 6, 2018 / 9:16 am

      Sad but true sis.

  3. February 12, 2019 / 12:11 pm

    These are really good point Ndelwa. From the free I think I am a bit of everything to those that are close to my heart. I am not for everyone and can never be but I do try to be the best I can for those that matter. Have a blessed week.


  4. ndelwamwasa
    February 12, 2019 / 7:39 pm

    Hey sis, that’s true! you really cant be for everyone.. A blessed week to you as well .

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