Life is very eventful and so are the people we keep on our paths to help us enjoy our different journeys. As my life progresses, I’ve come to the realization that only a handful of important people should be kept around.This thought led me to my blog post today.
- The Confidant
This person is in your life unconditionally, he/she doesn’t judge you based off anything you are experiencing n life. This is “YOUR PERSON” no matter the circumstances. It is important to have this person in your life to mentor you for the next level in your life. They keep you level headed and make sure you think deeper into your actions.
These people are not for you, nor are they for what you are for. THEY ARE AGAINST WHAT YOU ARE AGAINST! They will always cause people to come together who are not for you. They will only be with you till their goal is accomplished. These are the most confusing friends…. The ones you need to watch closely.
They are not into you, they are into what you are for. AS LONG AS YOU ARE FOR WHAT THEY ARE FOR, THEY WILL ALWAYS WALK WITH YOU!!! It is important to know that when they meet someone else who will further their agenda, they will drop you! Simply because they were never FOR YOU.
I know for many, this is something we have read and heard so many times but are we actively paying attention to people’s actions?
Consistently assess who you have around you.
What type of friend are you and what role are you playing in someone’s life?