Flawed, broken, Imperfect & still worthy!!

Flawed, broken, Imperfect & still worthy!!

Hey dolls,

2017 was an eventful year for me emotionally, physically and mentally. I faced so many challenges and overcame all of them like I never thought I would. When I look back at where I was and were I am now I can proudly say that THE PEACE I HAVE NOW WAS WORTH EVERYTHING I LOST LAST YEAR and I will remain forever grateful to God for all he has continuously done in my life. I am still a work in progress and remain grateful to the friends and family that stood with me at all times. With that being said, I am not perfect and I am not here to give anyone advice on how they should live their lives. 

The last time I experienced this type of turbulence in my life was when I lost my dad and that’s not being brought up for me to be pitied because that won’t be accepted over here.  All this goes to say that many of us go through different issues and challenges and we are shaped by how we respond to all of them. I went through a few and continue to grow into the woman I have always wanted to be. Growth moves us in ways that we may not enjoy in the moment but it all gets better in the end.  We can bring all challenges up and discuss them but you know what Sis? These challenges shape us to be the best that we can be and God doesn’t care were you have been when he is ready to use YOU!! Sit back and enjoy the ride… 

We are all gracefully broken, and we won’t be given tasks we cannot handle. Be kind to all because you don’t know what personal battles everyone else is fighting.

Take it easy on me with this being my first post. I will share my interests with you all which will mostly be  about food and travel , and share what helped me get through tough times. The title of this post and the name of this blog says it all. Are we going to Settle or evolve together? 

I would like to share this journey with you all, walk in my truth and use this as a positive outlet to discuss so many issues that are ignored today. As we all decide to love ourselves a little more and EVOLVE, lets have fun and share this experience together.

First love yourself others will come next


You’re not a victim for sharing your story. You are a survivor setting the world on fire with your truth, and you never know who needs your light your warmth and raging courage — Alex Elle



  1. rosemutale14
    March 2, 2018 / 4:56 pm

    Amen to all of this sister. Thank you for being brave enough to share your journey. I am super excited for the world to see just how smart, talented and funny you are. Looking forward to reading more and you look smashing!!!


    • Winnie-lisa Banda
      March 3, 2018 / 4:43 am

      Beautiful piece, sister.. Looking forward to read more and i believe your story will have such a positive impact on people’s lives. God bless you. πŸ’š

  2. March 2, 2018 / 5:31 pm

    I’m happy for you and your beginnings of a journey into the writing world! Spread your words like wings and fly! All the best

  3. mwash
    March 2, 2018 / 5:33 pm

    Amen!!!God can never let u pass thru something u can not handle…even through turbulances be still!and know he is God….very encouraging and i will sure EVOLVE with u and walk with u thru this journey..circumstances of life can either make u or break u..am glad u chose the forma..am a victim of lifes circumstances too buh it has made me stronger and who i am today..looking forward to ur next post!!…..LOVE..LIVE..GIVE and FORGIVE…..peace be with u..

    • March 2, 2018 / 5:35 pm

      Mwashhhhhhh!!! you know i appreciate you…. thank you girl. lets grow together.

      • mwash
        March 2, 2018 / 7:39 pm

        Lets sure do my booski

  4. Guyllene
    March 2, 2018 / 5:39 pm

    Yesssss come through, this will touch a lot of people. I love you

  5. March 2, 2018 / 6:15 pm

    Okay you better show them the glory of God on your life boo.

  6. Mary
    March 2, 2018 / 10:18 pm

    Awwww honey,you live life fully and you are authentic.As you let your light shine,you allow others to do the same.

    Cheers to a series of miracles to unfold.
    β™₯ xoxo

    • March 2, 2018 / 10:22 pm

      Amen πŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ» thank you

  7. Yamiko
    March 2, 2018 / 11:38 pm

    This post had me all up in my emotions. I loved reading every bit of it.
    God has got you babe. It isn’t a chance, mistake, or coincidence that you’re here writing on this blog. Looking forward to reading more posts.

    • March 2, 2018 / 11:54 pm

      Thank you 😘 coming from you I’m so grateful

  8. DocKB
    March 2, 2018 / 11:47 pm

    To settle or evolve.. what a great to start this journey! Looking forward to the ignored topics some of us face and evolve through them.

  9. Dre Lou kamuti
    March 2, 2018 / 11:54 pm

    Amen!! God is there and will always be there for you! Trust in him always !! This has really touched me! And made me realize a lot of things!!thank you Ndelwa

    • March 3, 2018 / 12:09 am

      Amen πŸ™πŸ» thank you bro

  10. Nk
    March 3, 2018 / 4:18 am

    Strength of a woman is seen when she uses her own, to inspire others and make them as strong as she is.
    You are absolutely amazing for doing this and we are looking forward to more.πŸ’“

    • March 3, 2018 / 7:36 am

      That’s very true! Thank you my darling

  11. D2316
    July 13, 2020 / 7:53 pm

    First of all, excellent choice again in picking this cover picture for the post. It really captures the essence of evolve or settle. You have a strong visual sense and this cover picture proves that again. The birds could settle or fly away in the vastness that exists around them, yet they hover, as if they are contemplating settling or evolving, soaring, reaching for their higher selves. Love it!

    I like your writing style and I’m glad you are taking on this brave journey of speaking your truth…. I can already see how inspiring this would be to your followers… all of us for that matter.

    Very interesting introduction to start off your blog and I’m excited to see how this evolves and transforms you.

    • ndelwamwasa
      July 13, 2020 / 9:04 pm

      Wow! Thank you very much. Have a blessed evening

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